Are you married? Have you been married before? It’s a life event that plenty of people experience, just shy of 50% of Americans get married!
But few people get married twice, let alone ten times!
56-year-old Cassey is ending her tenth marriage and is still determined to find her Prince Charming!
According to Proactive Mindfulness:
- 54 percent of [American] men and 60 percent of [American] women had married once.
- 13 percent of men and women had married twice.
- 3 percent had married three or more times.
This effectively puts Cassey in the top 1% of the population for number of marriages!
She is no world record holder just yet though! Glynn Wolfe (who died in 1997) still holds the record for the most marriages at 29 marriages across 89 years!
Cassey’s longest marriage lasted about eight years while her shortest was about six months.
Glynn Wolfe was closer to either extreme in both regards! His longest marriage lasted about eleven years, while his shortest was a mere 19 days!
So why the affinity for marriage? Well, Cassey says she doesn’t know what she’s doing wrong but she hasn’t been able to find the one for her yet!
In an appearance on the tv show Dr. Phil, Cassey tells her story of how
she ended up married to ten different men and living in about 76 different houses over the course of her life!
Her first marriage was her longest, clocking in at eight years. Cassey says that it ended mutually, a comment that Dr. Phil doesn’t seem to totally agree with! Her second marriage went on for seven years, and the third for four years. That’s not even including the years spent dating or engaged!
But Cassey’s selection in men seems to be a large factor in her high turnover rate!
Phil mentions that according to his list, she was married to three cheaters, a “doping biker,” and a “peeping tom.”
Cheaters and peeping toms aside, Cassey admits that while she was married to husbands #4 and #5, she would smoke crystal meth “recreationally” with her daughter.
There’s no such thing as recreational meth use.
Crystal meth is one of the most addictive and harmful substances on the planet! Her repeated drug use with her daughter is an indicator of a deeper issue at work, here.
Despite Cassey’s claims that she does not know what she is doing wrong in her relationships, her children claim that they know exactly what she is doing wrong!
Her children even claim that her tumultuous lovelife has had a negative, lasting impact on them! Cassey’s son even described her as conniving and manipulative, while her daughter claimed that
Cassey always marries for money, and never for love or happiness.
Cassey is even caught lying about her faithfulness in her marriages, with one ex-husband stating:
“The marriage ended because Cassey was unfaithful.
“She treats marriage like a job, she won’t quit one until she has another one lined up ready to go so she’s not in between paychecks.”
Phil gets real with Cassey and tells her she’s relationship dependent, using the accounts from her ex-husbands and children to show her exactly where she’s going wrong.
He lays out exactly what about her behaviour needs to change to make ammends with her family, from boyfriends to husbands, to her attentiveness to her kids, to her drug use.
Now, it’s up to Cassey to take the necessary steps and make the necessary changes to her life to improve as a person and become who she was always meant to be!
You can check out the video below for more of Cassey’s story!
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