Acts of Kindness
Male employee befriends boy with down syndrome then mom notices him start to change her son
What started as a normal relationship between 13-year-old Riley and TJ, started to shift in front of mom's eyes.
Sasha Alonzo
06.23.22

A special meeting

We never know who we’re going to meet and there are some days that stand out more than others because of special people that cross our paths.

It was just a typical morning for Redwood City Whole Foods employee, TJ Lawlor, whose friendly face is one of the first things customers see. Sure his days are filled with meeting and helping people, but usually, the interaction ends there. But one Sunday morning a young boy with Down Syndrome walks up to him and both their lives are changed forever.

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A friendship in the frozen food section

As TJ busies himself stocking the frozen foods, he notices a young boy making his way down the aisle. “Eventually he got to me and I said, ‘Hey, how are you today?’ And I introduced myself,” – TJ told NBC Bay Area.

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A simple question gets an enthusiastic response.

After saying hello, TJ asked him if he would like to help him stock the freezers. Riley happily agreed and enjoyed every moment of the experience.

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An unforgettable day

The young boy, Riley Dehne, who was 13 at the time, was with his mom Ande. TJ’s kindness had made such a lasting impression on both Riley and Ande that they decided to make weekly visits to the store just to visit their new friend. That was six years ago and those weekly visits are still going strong.

Becoming a habit

“It honestly fills my heart. Sometimes, when there’s someone with a disability it can be harder to get to know them. TJ took the time to get to know Riley. He took the time to meet him where he’s at, to learn his strengths and build on them.” – Ande told NBC Bay Area

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Changing her son

Each week Andi brings Riley, who is 19 now, to the store to see TJ. Riley wastes no time finding TJ as his mom grocery shops. Ande was so touched by the unlikely friendship that she wrote a story about it for the local paper. She mentioned how her son’s demeanor has changed for the better. TJ’s friendship had boosted his confidence and enabled him to come out of his shell.

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“I’m glad the stars were aligned right here.” – TJ told NBC Bay Area

TJ was shocked to read Ande’s story. “That just blew me away, that really did. I never thought that little ol’ me would have such an impact on someone else’s life like that.” – TJ told NBC Bay Area

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Riley isn’t the only one that’s been affected

TJ told NBC Bay Area that his life has also been positively impacted by the special friendship. “Every time this guy comes in, nothing but love, nothing but smiles. I get down sometimes myself. This guy cheers me up. He cheers me up and I cheer him up. That’s what I look for in a friend.” – TJ told NBC Bay Area

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Best friends for life.

The story of TJ and Riley is a perfect example of life’s little unexpected detours that make the entire journey worthwhile.

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Watch their heartwarming friendship for yourself in the video below. It’s clear to see they have a very special bond.

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By Sasha Alonzo
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Sasha Alonzo is a contributor at SBLY Media.
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